A Second Premise Of Contemplative Psychotherapy

Another operating premise of contemplative psychotherapy is that there are two basic requirements which will create the most advantageous environment for encouraging the changes you may wish to make. These are the cultivation of
1) an attitude or relationship of acceptance of where one is right now; and
2) an attitude or relationship of compassion regarding oneself, as well as others.

Through cultivating (there's nothing instant about this) both acceptance and compassion toward oneself, it is possible to create a cauldron into which all of one's concerns and imperfections and questions and doubts and troubles can be cooked into workable ingredients for a tasty and healthful stew of transformation.
On the other hand, if one attempts to make real and beneficial changes while starting from a place of hostility, criticism and judgement toward oneself, it will be extremely difficult, if not impossible, to proceed fruitfully. You may already have some experience of this.

There are different ways to cultivate these qualities within oneself, and in the contemplative approach, various meditation techniques and practices can be employed
toward this end, as well as utilizing the power of the therapeutic relationship itself as a catalyst and as a tool for this cultivation. The process in either case is an experiential, and not a theoretical one.















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