Who Are Your Heroes?

Of course we are motivated and inspired by those we admire most. Who are the inspirations in your life? And what is it about them that inspires you? Who are your real heroes? Who do you aspire to emulate?

The prospect of mental health, happiness, or wisdom is more or less likely depending upon the kinds of people we truly look to as models for our own lives. Some models will serve us well in this quest, and some will not. It may be obvious that having, say, the Son Of Sam, or Hitler, or Lindsay Lohan as a role model will not lead to mental health. It may be less obvious that having, say, some of our parents, our civic/political leaders, our religious leaders, or our business leaders will also not lead to mental health. Indeed, it may be shocking to consider that having some of the most respected and revered members of society as our models might contribute to mental illness, foolishness or even insanity, rather than to health.

Without looking for perfection, we might still be on solid ground in looking for some sustainable commitment to integrity, to compassion, to tolerance and to genuine caring about others and about the world at large, in our healthier heroes.
We might do well to look for heroes who have the capacity to make sacrifices in the service of humanity. We might look for heroes who even make service to humanity a real priority in their lives. When I say service to humanity, I don't mean service to a privileged few - that ever touted but highly suspect value of "enlightened self interest". I mean something more along the lines of a real consideration of what some Native American peoples are said to call the well being of the next seven generations. All of humanity, not merely me and mine.

It is my opinion, professionally and personally, that the latter possibility is much more likely to lead in the direction of health, happiness, wisdom and well being than is the former.

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